When a child learns of a classmate’s passing, it can elicit a wide range of reactions. Because children typically have little experience with death, or they may not have matured emotional capabilities, they may respond with anger, confusion, fear, or even numbness. You can help your child through the grieving process by keeping in mind these suggestions:
Take Time to Discuss His Concerns
As your child tries to cope with the passing of his classmate, he may have many questions. Depending on his age, some of those questions may encompass issues beyond his classmate’s death. Your child may want to talk about how the dying process occurs, what happens after death, and why people die at all. These far-reaching topics may require you to consider carefully your responses.
Encourage Outlets for Grief
If your child does not want to discuss his classmate’s passing, he may still be contending with strong emotions. You do not have to force your child to talk about the situation, but you can encourage him to mourn in other ways. For instance, ask him to write a poem or draw a picture. You can also have an at-home memorial service where you play special songs or look through photographs to remember his classmate.
Allow Him Time to Mourn
Many people may consider children resilient, but the death of a classmate can result in long-term grief that resurfaces over time. Even if your child appears happy and emotionally strong one day, he may hear his classmate’s name or recall a certain memory that prompts a return to sadness or confusion. Reassuring your child that he can take as much time as he needs to grieve can help him work through his emotions in a healthy way.
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While they are widely considered to be sad and difficult, funeral services are actually a very important ceremony for the surviving loved ones of the deceased. Not only does it fill an important role in the mourning process, but it provides a caring and supportive place for all to share their feelings about the death. Read this article for a closer look at how funerals help loved ones heal and move forward.
A Supportive Environment
A funeral ceremony provides a system of social support for the family and loved ones of the deceased. It gives them a chance to connect with visitors attending the funeral to show their support and also seeking closure. For loved ones who were recently made widows or widowers following the death, funeral services provide a time to adjust to a new social role within a support system of friends and family. This helps the bereaved integrate back into the community, and eases the transition to a new life following the passing of a loved one.
The Reality of Death
Following the death of a loved one, it can be very difficult to accept that their passing has actually happened. One of the most important roles of a funeral is to help families grasp the difficult reality that their loved one has passed. Fortunately, for many families, there is no better place in which to have such a realization—in the presence of a supportive community of family and friends of the deceased.
Embracing and Expressing Pain
It can be very challenging and uncomfortable to experience and express pain, but doing so is an important component of the healing and grieving process. A funeral ceremony provides the unique opportunity for families, friends, and visitors to openly embrace and express pain.
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Cremation is becoming increasingly popular in the United States as a way to handle the body of a loved one after they have passed. Skylawn Funeral Home and Memorial Park offers onsite cremation services, which gives you the comfort of knowing the cremation process has been handled properly and with great care. Many families also like to have a cremation ceremony as well. This involves an optional gathering, which is religious or non-religious, and an optional, private visitation prior to the cremation process. You can have the ashes buried traditionally, with a memorialization ornament such as a bench, crypt, or personalized monument placed on top of the burial site.
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Flowers play a part in almost every funeral these days. Floral arrangements are not only beautiful; they can also be symbolic. In fact, many people choose flowers based on the meaning behind them. Red carnations, for example, signify strength, while red roses signify respect. White carnations and roses normally signify truth and innocence. And pink carnations signify remembrance. The chrysanthemum is associated with grief, and sometimes even truth, which is why it is common in a funeral arrangement. The lily typically signifies peace, purity, and majesty. To learn more about the meaning behind funeral flower arrangements, watch this video clip.
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