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Tips for Notifying People About a Loved One's Death and Funeral Arrangements

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In addition to choosing a funeral home and planning funeral services, one of the many tasks that will face you after a loved one passes away is notifying other friends and family members. Loved ones not only will need to be alerted to the passing but also will need information about the funeral arrangements. These tips will help you make these notifications.

Consider Face-to-Face Conversations
Depending on the relationship between the deceased and the person receiving the news, a face-to-face conversation may be your best way to make the notification. This makes it easier to deliver the news with the compassion you intend and allows you to comfort each other. Of course, when close family and friends live far away, these conversations may not be possible. In these cases, a phone call to provide the news as soon as possible is a good substitute. You may wish to notify some people of the passing before you have made any funeral plans and then follow up when the time for the service is set.

Enlist Help
When you are planning a funeral and making important decisions about things like cremation and burial, the sheer number of people who need to be notified can be overwhelming. Although you should notify close friends and family yourself, ask for help in notifying other people, such as acquaintances and work colleagues. This can alleviate some of your burden and help you avoid having the same conversation multiple times.

Use an Obituary
Obituaries aren't just tributes to someone who has passed on. They also provide information to people about funeral arrangements. With the information in an obituary, people can find out when the funeral is to be held or what funeral home to contact with questions about the arrangements.

At Skylawn Funeral Home and Memorial Park, we can provide information about the funeral services in San Mateo you have planned for your loved one as well as post information on our website to help people pay their respects. For help with planning a funeral or to find out more about our services, please call (650) 349-4411.

Dealing with Grief After a Sudden Death

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There is no "easy" way to cope with the loss of a loved one. Regardless of whether the death was sudden or the result of a prolonged illness, the passing of a loved one brings raw emotions to the surface. However, individuals coping with a sudden death may have a harder time accepting the fact that their loved one is no longer with them. The shock of the news often leads to denial, which may persist even while visiting the funeral home to make the arrangements. During this difficult time, it can be helpful to seek grief support services.

Understanding Shock
The grief that follows a sudden death is just as poignant as grief after an anticipated loss, but suddenly bereaved individuals tend to be less capable of coping because they haven't had time to prepare for this new reality. Every mourner will react differently, but it's not uncommon to see symptoms of shock. Shock may take the form of an inability to speak, move, eat, or sleep. It may involve uncontrollable hysteria, screaming, and shaking. The suddenly bereaved may experience physical effects, such as heart palpitations, headaches, stomach pain, and exhaustion. This is a particularly sensitive period in the grieving process. Medical professionals may need to step in to help.

Working Through Emotions
During the initial weeks and months, the suddenly bereaved will gradually begin coming to terms with the new reality. It's not uncommon for mourners to feel as though they're going crazy, can't think clearly, or simply can't get through the normal activities of daily life. It's important for the suddenly bereaved to realize that these challenges are all part of the grieving process. While the pain of loss will never go away, it will get easier to cope with these emotions over time. The suddenly bereaved may try multiple forms of grief support before figuring out what is best for them. For some, support groups are the answer. Others might prefer one-on-one counseling or perhaps volunteering for a cause related to the death of the loved one.

Skylawn Funeral Home and Memorial Park is committed to providing compassionate grief support services in San Mateo. We want you to know that our grief counselors are here for your family. Please explore our online grief services at any time of the day or night, or call us at (650) 349-4411 to arrange funeral services.

Funeral Etiquette Mistakes to Avoid

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Solemnity is expected at any funeral service. Behaving in an appropriate manner conveys your respect for the decedent and the mourning family. But if you've never been to a funeral before, it's easy to commit etiquette mistakes inadvertently. Before you depart for the funeral home, take a few minutes to remind yourself of appropriate behaviors.

Avoiding the Receiving Line
One common mistake is to enter a funeral home for a visitation and to immediately take a seat to reflect upon the decedent's life. The appropriate etiquette is to join the line of mourners. It's customary for each mourner or couple to pause before the casket for a few moments. Some may choose to kneel and pray, but this is not necessary. After paying your respects, continue past the casket to the family members in the receiving line. Shake their hands or give them hugs if you know them well. Express your condolences and perhaps say a few words about how you knew the decedent. Then, you may take a seat or join others in quiet conversation.

Wearing Inappropriate Clothing
The traditional rule of wearing an all-black outfit to a funeral has been relaxed in recent years, but it's still important to dress in a formal manner. Wear dark, modest clothing that does not call attention to yourself. Choose minimal makeup and jewelry, and wear closed-toe shoes.

Forgetting to Turn Off a Cellphone
It's best if you leave your cellphone and other electronic gadgets in the car. If you bring them inside with you, it's essential that you turn them off first. You should never take out your cellphone to check for messages or missed calls while you're inside the funeral home, house of worship, or cemetery.

Skylawn Funeral Home and Memorial Park provides compassionate services to families who have lost a loved one and to those who are pre-planning their funeral needs. At our funeral home in San Mateo, we work closely with each family to ensure the funeral service exceeds expectations. You can reach a funeral director at (650) 349-4411.

Should You Make Your Children Attend a Funeral?

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Visiting a funeral home for a wake and going to a house of worship for a funeral service do not have to be frightening events for children. Attending a funeral with your children helps them to develop empathy and to understand the importance of giving support to others in their time of grief. However, children should never be forced to attend a funeral if they do not feel comfortable doing so.

Ahead of the funeral ceremony, sit down with your child and use age-appropriate language to describe what will happen during the service. Explain whether there will be an open or closed casket and what these terms mean. Discuss appropriate behavior during the funeral service. For example, your child must remain quiet and at your side during the service. Then, ask your child if he or she feels comfortable attending the ceremony. Reassure him or her that you don't mind if your child would rather not attend.

For more than 50 years, Skylawn Funeral Home and Memorial Park has provided gracious funeral services and burial plots in San Mateo. Families can reach us at (650) 349-4411.

Understanding Your Loved One's Hospice Care

Funeral services aren't always arranged after a loved one has passed. Sometimes, it makes sense to pre-plan a funeral, such as when a loved one has entered into hospice care. There are plenty of misconceptions about hospice care, such as that it shortens life or that it's akin to "giving up." Watch this video to find out the truth about hospice care.

You'll learn that hospice providers focus on supporting quality of life for the patient and his or her family. Hospice provides medical services that are intended to address pain and other symptoms, but are not intended to treat the illness. With hospice care, your loved one can enjoy the remainder of life with dignity.

Skylawn Funeral Home and Memorial Park offers funeral pre-planning services in San Mateo. If your loved one has a life-limiting illness, we invite you to explore our grief support services and funeral services at any time. Call (650) 349-4411 to learn more.

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